Tasha & Beckie's theory on finding 'the one' - because we know it all, ya know?
"What's my name?"
I can't believe I'm broadcasting this but I will anyway... My friend and I have this theory we refer to as the Categories - it says each person has a selection of items that a person must satisfy in order to be ones perfect match - the primary categories: for example they must be funny, must get on with your friends and family, must be outgoing, must be kind, ambitious etc. These primary categories/ things are very important, if this person is to be your soul mate they must tick these primary boxes - you should find out if they do or not in the early days so if for example they are funny, kind, ambitious yet they are anti-social and therefore don't get along with your family and friends (just an example) then you already have a crack in the formation, it may not matter so much now but ultimately later on this can lead to problems. Another example could be that they are kind, ambitious, they get along well with your family and friends but they don't make you laugh - perhaps you may find someone in the future that slides in to that category and leads you astray? Who knows. There are also the secondary categories - categories which would make things even better but aren't crucial for a perfect match, for example they should be taller than you, they shouldn't smoke, preferably brown hair etc. - things you can deal with/live without. You mustn't mistake primary for secondary categories, for example you shouldn't not go for someone just because they have a blonde hair if they fit all of your primary categories. My friend and I were completely out of it when we came up with this theory about 4 years ago but I find myself referring to it quite often. It seems great theories can be born from conversations when wrecked.
The best morning ever, somewhere in Ibiza
